Peraturan Hubungan.

Assalammualaikum.

Jangan ingat negara saja ada undang-undang, hubungan cintan cintun korang tu pon perlu ada peraturan.Jangan bak kata nadia *redah jer*.Kalau macam tu,ramai betul mak janda berhias sekarang nie. Yelah ikot retis kan ..banyak dah retis-retis yang kahwin then tak lama lepas tu mak janda sudah.*teettt*. Aku nie nak kata pandai sangat dalam bab nie,idoklah terer bebenor.But I just want to share with all my readers,maybe who knows korang akan dapat something new from my pondok usang ini. Korang pernah buat peraturan? jangan tanya aku,,,tak pernah wujud pon.Adelah datang menyinggah kejap dalam kepala otak lepas tu ...turrrrr lari keluar balik.

Nah! Hangpa semua letak kejap mata dekat screen lappy tu.Bace sat noo ape yang aku dok merapu sat. *Sumber dipercayai*

• Respect, respect, respect. Inside and outside the relationship, act in ways so that your partner always maintains respect for you. Mutual respect is essential to a good relationship.
• View yourselves adcs a team, which means you are two unique individuals bringing different perspectives and strengths. That is the value of a team—your differences.
• Know how to manage differences; it's the key to success in a relationship. Disagreements don't sink relationships. Name-calling does. Learn how to handle the negative feelings that are the unavoidable byproduct of the differences between two people. Stonewalling or avoiding conflicts is NOT managing them.
• If you don't understand or like something your partner is doing, ask about it and why he or she is doing it. Talk and explore, don't assume.
• Learn to negotiate. Modern relationships no longer rely on roles cast by the culture. Couples create their own roles, so that virtually every act requires negotiation. It works best when good will prevails. Because people's needs are fluid and change over time, and life's demands change too, good relationships are negotiated and renegotiated all the time.
• Listen, truly listen, to your partner's concerns and complaints without judgment. Much of the time, just having someone listen is all we need for solving problems. Plus it opens the door to confiding. And empathy is crucial. Look at things from your partner's perspective as well as your own.

So, macam mane? Aku taklah ambil kesemuanya dalam fakta tersebut.But,sesetengah yang kita boleh ambil kan ? So I hope you alls semua enjoy reading all this points. *Muah*